The ACU campus may have recently survived the “snowpocalypse,” but there still looms an event that many on campus are wishing to avoid. For some, it is one of the most romantic days of the year. But for many, the date is a dreaded one.
For singles on campus this Valentine’s Day, the Optimist proposes a survival guide for how to put the “victory” back in “V-Day.”
1. Avoid Social Media
Singles on Valentine’s Day, do not even consider logging on. The status updates and proclamations of love would drive any well-adjusted individual to down an entire package of those chalk-flavored candy hearts. Gone are the days when going to school meant receiving a cardboard valentine from every member of the class. Now, Facebook and Twitter only serve to make loneliness more acute.
2. Channel Surf with Care
Avoid Lifetime at all costs. Watching a D-list actress finally reunite with her high school sweetheart, only to find he’s about to ship off to war is unlikely to lift the spirits. “Singles Awareness Day” also happens to fall on a Monday this year, the day of the week “The Bachelor” airs. Don’t do it. Exotic dates in pursuit of love, however frivolous and futile, won’t make your own isolation any more appealing. Just say no.
3. Phone a Friend
There’s strength in numbers. Find a band of singles with whom to spend the evening. Go to a movie with a group, or hang out with others who view Feb. 14 as just another date on the calendar. Most singles aren’t hoping to spend that evening waiting for their roommate to come in and gush about a homemade valentine or stale box of Russell Stovers from “the most wonderful person in the world.”
4. Don’t forget, It’s Still Monday
The most important thing to remember is that Valentine’s Day is just that: a day – nothing more. It’s still Monday. We all still will attend work, class and yes, even Sing Song practice.
While some may see it as an opportunity to express affection for loved ones, others may be relieved they aren’t obligated to plan a special evening and can relax instead.
Valentine’s Day can be a lonely holiday, but only if we let it. Enjoy the time with others, whether it’s that special someone or just a group of friends.
